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"Don Ryan shares deeply personal insight into the complex feelings and experiences of those affected by suicide. This book is a necessary read for all social workers and helping professionals – to support our clients, friends, family, and ourselves."
- Dr. Karen Goodenough, PhD, Executive Director, National Association of Social Workers, MN Chapter

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This groundbreaking book offers compassionate guidance and practical advice to those who lost a loved one to suicide. With a special focus on men impacted by this issue, Don Ryan weaves his personal stories and insights throughout making the book highly informative, relatable and readable.

- L. Shafer

Very insightful… a truly unique perspective on how to cope with the suicide of a loved one from someone who has experienced this first hand. You rarely hear about the pain this causes for those friends and family members left behind. I would highly recommend this book to someone coping with, or contemplating suicide.”

- J. Egan

As a law enforcement professional for more than 25 years, I believe The Secret Struggle has a genuine and honest appeal given how open Don Ryan was, especially to men who have difficulty talking about subjects like trauma.

- M. Phill

As someone who knows and works with people who have experienced the loss of a loved one through suicide, The Secret Struggle gave me perspective that I thought I had, but didn’t. It is an honest and emotional story of loss and the journey to learn how to ask for help and find acceptance.”

- M. Sheehan